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In Memory Of John Lawrence Rose
10th August 1965
– 30th March 2007
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This memorial website was created in the memory of
John Lawrence Rose, born
in Montclair, New Jersey
on the 10th August 1965
and passed away on the 30th March 2007, 41 years of age.
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| Full Name: John Lawrence Rose |
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Born: 10th August 1965
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Passed Away: 30th March 2007
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| Age: 41 years of age |
| Location: Bridgton, Maine |
| Country: The United States |
| Spouse: Kathryn T. Stanton-Rose |
| Father: Ralph Morgan Rose |
| Mother: Dorothy Jane Lewis-Rose |
| Birth Place: Montclair, New Jersey |
| Children: Michael Jonathon, Allyson Michelle, Susan Dorothy, Kathryn Marie |
| Siblings: Edward, Robert, Richard (deceased) Marie, Joseph |
| Occupation: Self-employed |
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Created by Kathryn on
5 May 2007 & upgraded by Kathryn T Rose
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Survived By: His mother Dorothy, wife Kathryn, children Michael Jonathon, Allyson Michelle, their mother Lynne Smith and her husband Mike, children Susan Dorothy and Kathryn Marie. John's brother Ed and his partner Chris, John's brother Bob and his wife Kim, John's sister Marie and her husband Jamie, and John's brother Joe and his wife Ellen, eight neices, three nephews, Grand-neices Tiffany and Lily, and Grand-nephew Rick III.
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die... February 28, 1998 ~Happy Tenth Anniversary, Pooh. Ten years ago we stood in a snow covered field in the shadow of Mt. Katahdin and pledged ourselves to each other, 'till death do us part. That part came far too soon, but your love, and our love through our children, lives on. I miss you each and every day. Love, Your Pooh~
I have never had the honor of knowing anyone so giving and loving. John used to laugh at me locking our home. "Maybe someone needs it more than us," he always said. He loved doing massive cookouts and he loved nothing more than inviting everyone to the house, where he would cook 2 or 3 types of meat, 3 or 4 veggies, appetizers, rolls, you name it. No one but NO ONE left our home hungry. Almost three years ago our neighbors, who we knew casually, lost their home in a fire. John didn't hesitate. He invited our neighbors and their four sons to move in until they rebuilt. That took over 6 months. It was a bit chaotic, but John loved it, loved helping. We truly had a grand time, and our 'neighbors' went to 'best friends.' As John's brother Joe said, John was the best of the Good Samaritan and the poor woman from the Bible rolled into one. If he could do anything for someone in need, you can be assured that he did it. It was our neighbors who came to my side and helped me through those first horrible days, and they are there for us, still. ~Kathryn Rose THE MEASURE OF A MAN Not "How did he die?" But "How did he live?" Not "What did he gain?" But "what did he give?" Not "What was his station?" But "Had he a heart?" and "How did he play his God-given part?" Not "What was is shrine?" Nor "What was his creed? But "Had he befriended those really in need?" Not "What did the piece in the newspaper say?" But "How many were sorry when he passed away?" Was he ever ready with a word or good cheer, to bring back a smile, to banish a tear?" These are the units to measure the worth of a man as a man, regardless of birth. Eulogy for John written and read at his funeral by his daughter, Allyson: If you walked up to some random person and asked them what 14,831 meant to them, they'd think you were crazy. But, if you asked me, I'd reply, the amount of days my father blessed this earth with his presence. We all can remember him as the big kid of the family... always in for the fun part of everything. The countless "hookeyla's", belly button stories, hikes up Mt. Katahdin, vacations at gramps camp and everyday adventures with dad were always amazing. Everything happend simply because "we were Roses, and thats what Roses do." So many things run through my mind when I think of my father; humorous, joyful, happy go lucky, daring, but most of all loving. During happy times he was the life of the party, and when you were feeling down he was the first person to always make you crack a smile. As he passes on through the gates of heaven today, I am assured hes watching over us all with god, keeping us close underneath his wing. His love for us will never die or fade, just as our's for him will remain forever. Although his life was cut short to only 41 years, he made the world a brighter place for those 41 years. We all remember him a the light of the family, but for now and forever, he will be the light in my heart that will keep me going day to day. And just to wrap it all up; I said it when I was younger, promised him my words would remain true, and always made sure he knew, " It will always be cool to hang out with dad." I'll miss you Daddy... rest in peace. - Allyson Rose "Blessings" I have been blessed. I am blessed with two beautiful daughters. I am blessed with two intelligent and thoughtful stepchildren. I am blessed with my mother and father, my sister and brother. I am blessed with a wonderful mother-in-law and many caring in-laws. I am blessed with devoted friends. I am blessed to call John's friends my own. I am blessed with a lifetime of memories. I have been blessed with knowing a love many never find. I am blessed because John loves me. My best friend. ~Kathryn T. Rose April 2007
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Poetry In Memory of John Rose
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Condolence Guest Book
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5 Mar 2013 – Susan Dorothy Rose
from Bridgton,ME
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Daddy I can't believe it's been almost 6 years now. Every day me mom and Kate miss you an d when your death anniversary coming up I have been having nightmares about you doing bad stuff to us so I hope I get rid of them so I can have a good memory for you and it's just that I only have mommy now. And when I ever look at your picture of you on the front of the page I see that tiny hand and know it's my own.
Happy Death anniversary Daddy,
Love,
liverlips <3
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26 Feb 2013 – Mindy Miller
from Bridgton
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My dad new him because he was on his mail rote. I new him because his daughter is my best freind. I miss him and so does susan.
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11 Jan 2013 – Susan Rose
from Bridgton,ME
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I miss you every day but when I go to school and everything else I do it all for the smile on your face on heaven and mommy's smile.
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30 Mar 2012 – Loretta Lawrence
from Shrewsbury, NJ
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We had so many wonderful times together.. I wish that never had to end! John will always live on in our hearts and in our minds!! My love to my best friend Kathy, and to all of John's beautiful family!! Hold tight to all the special memories you have of John. He loved you all so very much!! Love and prayers, Loretta xo
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30 Mar 2012 – Eileen
from Otisfield
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You can never change what has happened, but you are doing a wonderful job of raising your two girls. John is smiling down from Heaven watching the girls grow, and he is very proud of all their accomplishments. All you can do is keep up the good work, and know that we will be together again with all of the loved ones that we have lost.
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12 Feb 2011 – Darcey
from Naples
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Kathy, I did not have the privledge of knowing your John but I am honored that you allowed us to become part of your family after his passing. I am sure he would be proud of you and the girls as they are and will continue to be wonderful children, because they have you. Love to you all~
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10 Feb 2011 – Allyson
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So tonight I went to dinner with my friends. Everyone was talking about calling home and speaking to their fathers and it just hurt... almost 4 years now and the thought of you gone gives me the chills like it happend yesterday. Dont know where time is going but Im keeping my head up and doing what needs to be done to get by out here... on my way to success Dad & i know you're proud. Miss you more each and every day. Goodnight & I love you <3
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Thank you, Pooh, for teaching me what love, compassion, and trust mean. I miss you. "1234" ... "Bloop!"
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Visitor Flowers
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The following flowers have been placed by visitors to the online memorial of John Rose.
We invite you to leave your own flower at this memorial by entering clicking "leave my own flower" above.
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29 Mar 2013
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Missing you, Pooh. Unbelievable that its 6 years
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9 Mar 2013
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Oh my dear Pooh..... xoxoxoxo
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6 Feb 2013
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Hey, Love.... I thought of youm as usual....
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10 Jan 2013
friend of the fam placed this flower
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31 Dec 2012
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Happy New Year, Pooh. You are loved and missed.
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10 Aug 2012
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: :) The flower I placed at midnight is dated for yesterday! ;) xoxoxoxo
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9 Aug 2012
Your Pooh placed this flower
& wrote: Happy 47th birthday Pooh. I love you!
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18 Jul 2012
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Miss you, Pooh. "Bloop!"
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3 May 2012
Love placed this flower
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30 Mar 2012
Your Pooh placed this flower
& wrote: Still missing you every day xoxoxo
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1 Mar 2012
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Late posting, but never not thinking.... Happy Anniversary, Pooh! xoxoxo
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7 Oct 2011
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Hey. You and my Dad are keeping all the Angels awake. Quit with the Elvis karaoke!!! ;) xoxo
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7 Oct 2011
Your Pooh,,, placed this flower
& wrote: BLOOP! xoxo
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15 Sep 2011
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Thank you for all the gifts you have given to me. xoxoxoxo
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13 Sep 2011
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: I miss you! xoxoxo
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10 Aug 2011
Your Pooh,,, and Piglets! placed this flower
& wrote: Happy Birthday! We miss you!
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10 Aug 2011
John Moetteli placed this flower
& wrote: A bright and early Happy Birthday Mr. Rose! All the best to your family.
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11 Jun 2011
Your Pooh "Bloop!" placed this flower
& wrote: I think of you daily.... and at the oddest times.... xoxoxoxox
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20 May 2011
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Hi Pooh...... missing you..............."Bloop!" xoxoxoxoxox
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14 May 2011
Kathy, Susan, & Kate placed this flower
& wrote: Missing you, Pooh..... xoxoxoxoxo
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29 Mar 2011
Your Pooh "Bloop!" placed this flower
& wrote: You are loved, missed, and remembered daily. "1234"
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24 Mar 2011
~Your Pooh placed this flower
& wrote: .... very difficult.... I miss you. xoxoxoxox
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28 Feb 2011
Kathryn Rose placed this flower
& wrote: Happy 13th Anniversary, Pooh. xoxoxoxo
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10 Feb 2011
Evan Karaminas placed this flower
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Visitor Candles
The following candles have been lit by visitors to the online memorial of
John Rose. We invite you to light your own candle at this
memorial by entering your name below and clicking "Light Candle".
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Madi and Mindy lit this candle on 26 Feb 2013
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Your Pooh lit this candle on 17 Feb 2013
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teana & marky lit this candle on 8 Feb 2013
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Jason & Lynn Brant lit this candle on 7 Feb 2013
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The Morse family lit this candle on 10 Jan 2013
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IncognetO lit this candle on 9 Jan 2013
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You were right, Pooh. xoxoxo lit this candle on 9 Jan 2013
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Scott Peacock lit this candle on 24 Dec 2012
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Katie Rose lit this candle on 10 Aug 2012
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Susan Rose lit this candle on 10 Aug 2012
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Kate Rose lit this candle on 30 Mar 2012
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Susan Rose lit this candle on 30 Mar 2012
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Your Pooh lit this candle on 1 Mar 2012
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Kathryn Rose lit this candle on 7 Oct 2011
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Your Pooh,,, and Piglets! lit this candle on 10 Aug 2011
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John M lit this candle on 20 Jul 2011
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Kathryn T. Rose lit this candle on 29 Mar 2011
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Your Pooh lit this candle on 12 Mar 2011
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Kathryn Rose lit this candle on 28 Feb 2011
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Your Pooh lit this candle on 28 Feb 2011
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Kathryn Rose lit this candle on 10 Feb 2011
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Your Pooh lit this candle on 1 Jan 2011
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Kathryn Rose lit this candle on 24 Dec 2010
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Ashley lit this candle on 8 Sep 2010
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Family & Friends
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Author Journal
10 Feb 2011 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
This will be a short one, but it's a testimony to the heart John had... When my best friend (and Maid of Honor, at the time of our wedding in 1997) called and told me her brother Bob had passed away (my on-again-off-again weird relationship ex-boyfriend prior to meeting John)... I literally collapsed, in the midst of a house full of company. You need to understand that I totally lost it, sobbing uncontrollably. I was a complete and utter mess.
John took over completely. He took care of me, wra...
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30 Mar 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
So this I dedicate to Michael and Allyson,,,,
John was, by no ones standard, fond of spending money for those "unnecessary frivolities." So on this, the third anniversary of his entry into Heaven (which I am quite certain he is trying to remodel using duct tape and spackle,) I give to you, Gentle Reader, two anecdotes about his beloved genetic frugality.
When we bought our house, there was a lovely tree of some sort or another (I had no interest.... John would have told you the type, speci...
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7 Jan 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
When the rain comes you think that everyone has gone away
When the night falls you wonder if you shouldn't find someplace
To run and hide
Escape the pain
But hiding's such a lonely thing to do
I can't stop the rain from falling down on you again
I can't stop the rain, but i will hold you till it goes away
When the rain comes you blame it on the things that you have done
When the storm fades you know the rain has fall'n on everyone
So rest a while
It will be alright
No one loves yo...
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10 Feb 2011 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
This will be a short one, but it's a testimony to the heart John had... When my best friend (and Maid of Honor, at the time of our wedding in 1997) called and told me her brother Bob had passed away (my on-again-off-again weird relationship ex-boyfri...
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30 Mar 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
So this I dedicate to Michael and Allyson,,,,
John was, by no ones standard, fond of spending money for those "unnecessary frivolities." So on this, the third anniversary of his entry into Heaven (which I am quite certain he is trying to remodel u...
» read more ...
7 Jan 2010 -
Kathryn
wrote in journal:
When the rain comes you think that everyone has gone away
When the night falls you wonder if you shouldn't find someplace
To run and hide
Escape the pain
But hiding's such a lonely thing to do
I can't stop the rain from falling down on you aga...
» read more ...
SponsorThanks to Kathryn T Rose, this memorial was upgraded.
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