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In Memory Of Laurie (NiNi) Hayes
15th December 1955
– 5th August 2010
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"Let Go and Let God"
This memorial website was created in the memory of
Laurie (NiNi) Hayes (née Laurie Travis), born
in Elmira, New York
on the 15th December 1955
and passed away on the 5th August 2010, 54 years of age.
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| Full Name: Laurie (NiNi) Hayes |
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Born: 15th December 1955
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Passed Away: 5th August 2010
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| Age: 54 years of age |
| Location: Ovid, New York |
| Country: The United States |
| Spouse: David Hayes |
| Father: Robert Stienhauser |
| Mother: Elizabeth Stienhauser |
| Birth Place: Elmira, New York |
| Children: Amanda, Benjamin, Drew, Micheala, Jeremy, Kevin, Samantha and Kim |
| Siblings: Lucinda Stienhauser (sister) Jamie Travis (Brother) |
| Occupation: RN |
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Created by Benjamin on
6 Aug 2010 & upgraded by Benjamin W Bellucci
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I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. – Jesus Christ, John 14:6 Poem of Life Life is but a stopping place,A pause in what's to be,A resting place along the road,to sweet eternity.We all have different journeys,Different paths along the way,We all were meant to learn some things,but never meant to stay...Our destination is a place,Far greater than we know.For some the journey's quicker,For some the journey's slow.And when the journey finally ends,We'll claim a great reward,And find an everlasting peace,Together with the Lord.Laurie Hayes (née Travis) passed away peacefully after a short, courageous battle with cancer on Thursday, August 5th, 2010 at her home.A Mother, Daughter, Sister,Aunt, Goddess and Friend. Laurie Hayes is survived by her beloved husband David Hayes. Her Mother Elizabeth Steinhauser, Her Sister Lucinda Stienhauser, and her brother Jamie Travis. Her Children Amanda O'Donnell, Andrew Bellucci, Benjamin Bellucci, Michaela Hayes and Jeremy Hayes. Her Children-in-Law Kevin O'Donnell, Kimberly Bellucci, and Samantha Bellucci. Her Grandchildren Seth O'Donnell, Isabella Bellucci, Taylor Bellucci and Aidan Bellucci. She loved her family so much. Laurie Hayes, a registered Nurse at Cayuga Medical Center in Ithaca, NY touched lives for years to come. Laurie was always working towards higher education and continued to do so until her passing. She was diagnosed with Cholangiocarcinoma on March 3rd 2010 and knew it was a battle she wouldn't win, and through it all she showed each one of us the courage, strength and desire to live. Laurie Hayes loved to be in her element, the outdoors. She loved to camp, garden and read with the sun in her face and the wind in her hair. We know that she is no longer in pain and that she continues to feel the sun in her face, the wind in her hair and the dirt under her fingers. Mom you will be truly missed for your friendship, direction, encouragement and spirit. We always said no matter how far we traveled or the places we visited, when we were coming to see you...we always knew we were HOME. We Love you Big Much Mom and know that we will meet again. Rest In Peace... |
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Poetry In Memory of Laurie Hayes
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Sending Flowers & CardsThe author has requested that any cards or flowers be directed to the address below;
David Hayes
2835 Swick Rd
Ovid, NY 14521
Donations
The author has suggested donations be sent to following charity/organization; The Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation”
5526 West 13400 South, #510
Salt Lake City, Utah 84096
U.S.A.
or by web address: http://www.cholangiocarcinoma.org/donate.htm
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Condolence Guest Book
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5 Aug 2011 – benny
from Florida
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Today a year ago my world changed...Life isnt the same without you..I miss your heart, your smile, your direction...I know you are at Peace Mom...Im selfish and I just want to come home....My heart aches, my mind wonders why and my soul...is...You said it was going to be hard...it has ...each and everyday...love you Big Much Mom..WE miss you terrible
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2 May 2011 – Dianna
from Conway, SC.
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I have laughed, I have cried. I have laughed at the times we've had as friends. I have cried because I've lost my friend. I remember all the fun times we had shopping and hanging out. I remember seeing the joy you had when you had your kids. I remember all the late nights we worked at The Back Porch Resturant, when we were so tired we were giddy. I remember taking you to pick up our checks, driving that Vega. You were telling me how good I was doing, all the while with your white knuckles, while... » read more
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5 Mar 2011 – Ben
from Florida
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Remember LH, and remember this awful disease that took her so young in life
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23 Oct 2010 – Ben, Kim, Taylor, aidan
from Florida
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We Love you to the Moon and Back
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27 Aug 2010 – Mike Jackson
from Cortland, NY
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I loved working next to you for five years and was so excited when you came back to work on the unit. Our backgrounds and beliefs are so similiar; we had so many deep, heart to heart talks; you helped me through a hard time in my life; i love you so much and i miss you already...p.s. i think of you everytime i look at the St. Teresa painting you got for me...
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24 Aug 2010 – Drew Bellucci
from Clearwater, FL
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The full moon is here...can't wait to feel your warmth...I miss you my Momma...not any easier yet!!! Love you to the moon and back. Miss you like fire.
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17 Aug 2010 – Mark Watkins
from Rocherter, New York
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I will never forget the walks in the rain and snow.I was never wet nor cold. We were young and strong,strong like the bond we shared.I will always feel your spirit and cherish the memory that is you.Peace be with you always.
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9 Aug 2010 – David A. Lee
from Palm Springs, California
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Even as a little gay boy at #37 School in Rochester, I had the most monumental crush on Laurie that has lasted until this day. I remember Laurie as the smarted kid in school, adorable beyond words, and a good good good friend to me in our quest to grow up as we went to West High (and hung out with Eric Young!), and had water balloon fights, and student government campaign meetings, and always had a ball. You will never be forgotten, Laurie. Rest assured. DL David@LeeVaillancourt.com
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Visitor Flowers
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The following flowers have been placed by visitors to the online memorial of Laurie Hayes.
We invite you to leave your own flower at this memorial by entering clicking "leave my own flower" above.
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31 Jul 2011
Benny placed this flower
& wrote: Time hasn't healed the hole I have...Love You so much
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23 Oct 2010
Benny placed this flower
& wrote: Love you
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26 Sep 2010
Benny placed this flower
& wrote: Time will heal---right now it hurts
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23 Aug 2010
Benny placed this flower
& wrote: I miss you...
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9 Aug 2010
Greg placed this flower
& wrote: Sadly missed, lovingly remembered.
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9 Aug 2010
Bonnie Hockeborn placed this flower
& wrote: You were a beautiful person
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9 Aug 2010
Stacey Caskey placed this flower
& wrote: You will be forever missed and loved
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9 Aug 2010
Marisa Zogg placed this flower
& wrote: Laurie was a great lady.
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8 Aug 2010
Linda Seyba placed this flower
& wrote: May you Rest in Peace Laur
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8 Aug 2010
Michele Brennan Bianchi placed this flower
& wrote: I'll miss you forever!
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7 Aug 2010
Gabby placed this flower
& wrote: to one of my dear sisters
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7 Aug 2010
Brandy placed this flower
& wrote: Bring a little sun our way Laurie
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7 Aug 2010
Kathy placed this flower
& wrote: love you
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7 Aug 2010
Christine Bankert-Wray placed this flower
& wrote: Peace be with you Laurie.
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7 Aug 2010
Abbey Pelot placed this flower
& wrote: Shine Beautiful Angel
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7 Aug 2010
Nicelee Hollenback placed this flower
& wrote: Always in my heart
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7 Aug 2010
Lynne Andrews placed this flower
& wrote: You gave sunshine to us , Lauirie
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7 Aug 2010
Will Bellucci placed this flower
& wrote: You blessed my life.....
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7 Aug 2010
Drew Sammi Bella placed this flower
& wrote: WE MISS YOU LIKE FIRE....
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7 Aug 2010
Benjamin Bellucci placed this flower
& wrote: I miss you sooo Much Mom
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Visitor Candles
The following candles have been lit by visitors to the online memorial of
Laurie Hayes. We invite you to light your own candle at this
memorial by entering your name below and clicking "Light Candle".
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Dianna Falvo lit this candle on 26 Mar 2013
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benny lit this candle on 23 Jul 2012
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Benny lit this candle on 30 May 2012
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Michael and Dianna Falvo lit this candle on 6 Apr 2012
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Drew lit this candle on 23 Jan 2012
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Michael and Dianna Falvo lit this candle on 17 Jan 2012
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benny lit this candle on 5 Aug 2011
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Benny lit this candle on 17 Jun 2011
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Sage Peake lit this candle on 13 Jun 2011
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Seth Kevin Amanda O'Donnell lit this candle on 5 Mar 2011
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Benny Kim Taylor aidan lit this candle on 5 Mar 2011
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Ron and Vicki Turner lit this candle on 4 Mar 2011
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Michael and Dianna Falvo lit this candle on 4 Mar 2011
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Benny lit this candle on 30 Nov 2010
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aidan&Benny lit this candle on 23 Oct 2010
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Benny lit this candle on 16 Sep 2010
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Benny lit this candle on 23 Aug 2010
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Mark Watkins lit this candle on 17 Aug 2010
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Maureen Fessenden lit this candle on 14 Aug 2010
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Stacey Caskey lit this candle on 9 Aug 2010
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Sammi lit this candle on 8 Aug 2010
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Bella lit this candle on 8 Aug 2010
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Aidan lit this candle on 8 Aug 2010
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Tay Tay lit this candle on 8 Aug 2010
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Family & Friends
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Author Journal
5 Mar 2011 -
Benjamin
wrote in journal:
The thought of this week has brought even more tears. The family and I were flying from Guam to be by your side, this same time a year ago. We then went to your oncology appointment only to hear the words that scream through me like nails on a chalkboard. Cholangiocarcinoma has been a word that eats my Brain, a disease that melted my heart and a word that has given me the desire to live out your name, morals, beliefs and smile. So much has changed, more than I ever thought would. I want to call...
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19 Aug 2010 -
Benjamin
wrote in journal:
Mom,
It has been 2 weeks since I got the call. I miss you like crazy. I often find myself wanting to pick up the phone and call you and tell you about all that I am doing and what Kim and the boys are up to. I really feel as though a piece of me died with you. I am coming HOME soon to place you where you wanted to be. I often look at your picture and can't believe that hugging you out in the middle of yard and holding onto you so tight was going to be the last time I hug you or the conversatio...
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26th March 2013 candle lit by Dianna Falvo 23th July 2012 candle lit by benny 30th May 2012 candle lit by Benny 6th April 2012 candle lit by Michael and Dianna Falvo 23th January 2012 candle lit by Drew 17th January 2012 candle lit by Michael and Dianna Falvo 5th August 2011 author added poetry My Rock {view} 5th August 2011 author added poetry My Rock {view}
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Donations
The author has suggested donations be sent to following charity / organization; The Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation”
5526 West 13400 South, #510
Salt Lake City, Utah 84096
U.S.A.
or by web address: [visit]
Recent Journal Entries
5 Mar 2011 -
Benjamin
wrote in journal:
The thought of this week has brought even more tears. The family and I were flying from Guam to be by your side, this same time a year ago. We then went to your oncology appointment only to hear the words that scream through me like nails on a chalk...
» read more ...
19 Aug 2010 -
Benjamin
wrote in journal:
Mom,
It has been 2 weeks since I got the call. I miss you like crazy. I often find myself wanting to pick up the phone and call you and tell you about all that I am doing and what Kim and the boys are up to. I really feel as though a piece of me di...
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SponsorThanks to Benjamin W Bellucci, this memorial was upgraded.
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