

In Memory Of
Vivian Treadway
1923 - 2010
Full NameVivian Treadway
Born31st May 1923
Passed Away5th December 2010
Age
87 Years
Memorial Wall
There was a young lady who lived in a house
She was courted and wooed and soon had a spouse.
As they started a life, that included God
Little did they know where all they would trod.
Starting in a coal camp, work was hard.
The mister provided, while the Mrs. Used lard
But that was not all, to cook and to clean,
For soon they were blessed with Vonda Lugene
Love was in the house as they began to multiply
But God had different plans for Marion Kathleen
And Ralph Eugene with a question of Why?
For in Heaven with Him is where He wanted them to be
To help him prepare one day for the rest of the family
They moved to the country to build a big house
As the family grew larger there wasn’t room for a mouse
Along came Ruth Ann, then David Samuel,
And after him was Joseph Daniel.
Next in line was Lonnie Wayne, with all these boys, it must have been a pain
A little girl was due without fail,
Her name was Barbara Gail.
Room for any more? Some might say
And before we knew it Timmy Dean was on the way
In Heaven, as their brother and sister
Wondered if that would suffice
They suggested some sugar and spice and everything nice
A double helping but not all in one day
The family was blessed with Rita Faye and Patricia Kaye
Now God looked upon the children and couldn’t help but believe
They needed one more and they called him Melvin Steve
Sixty nine years passed in all
Some good some bad, but we had a ball
Sharing and caring with all of our hearts
It takes each and everyone to all do our part
Loving and laughing tears and fears
That is what made up these sixty nine years.
Trish 12/09/2010
09 Dec 2010
The Road
I have traveled a road not taken for several years.
A road that has been curvy, rough at times, occasional pot hole;
but has always had a straight stretch in the distance leading to
places unknown, sights unseen,and new adventures.
My first stop in the road was when I was maybe 4
My younger brother,Steve, was in his crib and I was put in charge!
Mommy was in the yard hanging out the laundry.
Steve decided to climb out of the crib and go for a walk
on the front porch that has no steps and is 8 feet off the ground.
I grab him by his diaper and scream until Mommy comes running in
and saves the day.
I remember another time when my sister, Rita, and I got in a fist fight,
a lot of hair pulling; Can't remember why, but no one came to that rescue.
I don't have many memories of my siblings at home. As they were
older than me and gone from home when I was young.
I do remember when Timmy got his first guitar, red I think?
Chet Atkins was "the man"
Bobbie kind of fades in and out because she must have been in high school.
I do remember she was always the boss when Mommy and Daddy would
go to "town" and do the once a month grocery chore.
I remember Lonnie and company. Seems like he never did anything
without a group of friends. He always had motorcycles and
homemade go carts and always had time for me.
From there on everyone was gone from home
with their own lives, married, college, or in the Service.
I remember many times not seeing Daniel and David for years
as they were fighting for our country.
Mommy always praying for them or telling me her stories of them
So I would have memories.
I stayed with Ruth one summer and remember her curling my hair
and taking me to get my picture taken! Wow did I feel special.
Vonda LuGene was someone I heard alot about and knew that when
she called, Mommy and Daddy got really excited. And then as I got
a little older I got to spend an entire summer with her in the big city.
My memories of Mommy and Daddy are too numerous to tell.
I remember when Daddy would come home from work he would
sit in the kitchen in front of the stove and I would take off his
boots. Then I would rummage through his left over lunch in his
bucket! Then another memory of him on a green bench on the porch
when he found out he was not able to work anymore due to blacklung.
Many evenings sitting on that same front porch listening to bob whites call
and he would say "sis, why don't you make us some popcorn?"
I remember the first time I made cornbread and fried potatoes for lunch.
Mommy and Daddy were either harvesting or planting something in the yard.
They bragged all about it but I am not sure how great it was!
Many nights I would be up with leg cramps or pain and Mommy would
bring linament and sing or pray while she rubbed my legs til I fell asleep.
As I grew older we would pray together. One time in particular is when I
heard about a prayer request at church. I didn't know this young man
but he was heavy on my heart to pray for him. When I told Mommy about
the request she said well we will just pray about it now. The holy spirit
filled Mommy and she got happy. After that she said I feel that everything
is going to be alright. I met him a few months later after he had heart surgery,
His name was Danny Hutsenpiller! I often wondered if she knew that he would
be the one for me. I wish I would've asked her.
She was there with me when I had each of my children and then as I learned how
to become a mother she was there for me, my role model.
I called her at 3am when Emily had a temperature of 104, and she prayed with
me over the phone. I felt better and eventually Emily was too.
I called her when Tanner turned blue from the croup and I had no idea.
Again we prayed. Then there was the time Jacob had a seizure from a fever
We took him to the ER, but I had to call Mommy first and get that prayer started.
Then life got really busy, Mommy and Daddy got older and somewhere between
baseball games and the rush of life "IT" went from me depending on them
to them depending on me. Taking them to doctors appt, reading bills because they
couldn't see, checking blood pressures, blood sugars; all became part of my daily
routine. Getting calls at work from Daddy, telling me Mommy had another "spell" with her
blood pressure or calls from Mommy saying Daddy isn't feeling well can you
talk to the doctor and get him some medicine! From there the road got rough
with illnesses and age. But we continued our prayer journery on that old road.
Now Mommy is on that straight stretch yearning for sights unseen and those adventures
she has yet to take. I know she is rejoicing in her heart and soul because she
has paved the road for those of us left here on earth. She has laid the foundation
and although we may still have some curves and bumps in the road our own straight
stretch is waiting on us and I am sure that Mommy and Daddy will be at the end of the road!
06 Dec 2010